Politalk. Politics and political intrigue and political plots, absolutely, but IC discussion of IRL politics is a huge energy sap.
Playing out romantic relationships in an RP setting generally doesn't interest me. Some of my PCs are flirts, but anything more significant than a playful dalliance is likely a non-starter.
Drama for the sake of drama fatigues me.
You can make me feel included as a player by...:
Check my character hooks and see if they make sense for one of yours! Throw me the ball!